Parents are the closest people to children. When encountering difficulties, children often first think of seeking protection and help from their parents. This is the most instinctive reaction of human emotions, and it is also a vivid portrayal of blood thicker than water. However, several children who were forced and blackmailed by "small corrupt officials" did not dare to tell their parents the truth in a few years. They would rather risk being beaten by their parents to steal the money from their families and hand them over to "small corrupt officials." It can be seen that the parent-child relationship in these families is not harmonious.
Undoubtedly, these parents are very fond of children, but is their love felt by their children? Parents must say their love for their children, even if they are only words. In this way, the child will understand the parents and trust the parents. For example, tell the child: "Parents love you, there must be something to tell Mom and Dad in time, Mom and Dad will be the master for you. Even if you do something wrong, just change it if you know it wrong, or a good boy." Confess the words like this. Tell the child to dispel the doubts in the child's heart.
The "small corrupt officials" incident reminds us that spilling love into the child's heart and understanding the child can help the child solve the problem of growing up. There is a misunderstanding in the need to explain, understand the child, close parent-child relationship, not to let the parents keep an eye on the child, so as not to inadvertently squeeze the child's free space, causing parent-child conflict.
Some parents said that I also want to know the children's movements in time, but the children are not willing to say anything. Practically speaking, the child is willing to tell the parents at the beginning of the matter, but many parents are often impatient when they hear half of the original, or half-pushing to find an excuse to sneak out, or reprimanding the child indiscriminately. With the experience and experience of the parents, what the child thinks is important is not worth mentioning in the eyes of the parents. It is so childish and ridiculous, so it often lacks patience. Parents have neglected the difference in experience and insight between adults and children. In this way, the child’s open heart may slowly close.